Self Confidence Makes You a Great Lover!
By: Penny Butler, NaturalHealing.com.au
| Most of the time, the culprit is within ourselves making us see things much bigger and magnified than they actually are and makes us overreact to events that could have been easily avoided.
It is much easier to lose than to build something - especially when it comes to the matters of the heart. |
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| An ignorant and careless person is vulnerable to losing a lot, including his or her life partner as well. This article tells you some simple things that you can remember to help keep you from hurting your partner and keep your love life blossoming. Here are some habits of self-confident lovers. |
Self-confident lovers are not jealous
If you are jealous of your partner, this is a sure indication that the foundations of love are not deep enough to withstand the wear and tear of time. Self confident lovers consider their partners as an extension of their own selves and feel happy if somebody has something good to say about their partners. There is no "yours" or "mine" in their relationship. It's always "ours," which forms the basis of their love. Most people get embarrassed or sceptical, or annoyed when someone makes a remark that "Your girl is so beautiful" or "Don't you think your boyfriend has a talent of impressing girls around." However, a confident man would say, "Yes. I know she is so beautiful and we are proud to be in love," while a self-confident girl will shoot back - "Yes. He impressed me too!" Remember that your individual qualities now are a combined "quality pool" belonging to you both, and both partners must treat is as an asset. This is only possible when both of you are confident of each other's love and commitment.
Self-confident lovers are more forgiving
Since self-confident people can maintain a cool and calm composure in the times of crisis, they are better at analysing situations and are able to put themselves in their partner's shoes. This way, they get their partner's viewpoint and understand their behaviour. In many instances, it happens that certain behaviour of our partner annoys us or makes us sceptical. Lack of self-confidence can also make us think negatively. However, self-confident lovers believe in the policy of "forgive and forget" and can move on.
Self-confident lovers make their partner more secure and comfortable
In a relationship, looks do matter, but then the characteristics that matter even more are a sensible and rational nature, sense of humour, ability to handle tough situations and more. Self-confident lovers are the best places to look for these attributes. Their self confidence is contagious and they are promising professionals as well. They enjoy respect and camaraderie, and nurture positive and constructive thoughts. They seem to have the ability to push away problems and provide for their family. In this world where genuine love seems to be an urgent need to calm humanity, a self-confident lover makes us feel secure, comfortable and this life seems worth living for!
Self-confident lovers give their partner a great gift - the gift of independence!
Sometimes love rather than liberate us, actually binds us. So much so that a possessive partner would like to have all the details of our lives. Who are the people you work with? Who was that "Daniel" who gave you a call at 7 in the morning? Why do you want to have your personal car? Why do you have to wear makeup every time you go out? Why are you wearing this dress at this hour...and so on! Love, which was once the most beautiful emotion in our lives, which seemed to fill us with hope and enthusiasm, now seems to drain out all the energy from us. You feel as if you are bound to someone, answerable to someone and tethered to the wall with limited mobility. Love does not seem much more than slavery. Self-confident lovers realize the importance of independence. They let their partner fly and soar great heights, because they know that at the end of the day, it is to their arms their partner will return!
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